You are in resistance to the very thing you say you want. It’s not that’s it truly hard, it’s that you choose to make it hard.
I used to say this to myself all the time – “Kendra you make things so much harder than they really need to be!” – And it was true.
I would set a goal and then agonize over how I was going to actually reach that goal.
The excuses would come and my mind would give me every reason why it wasn’t going to happen.
I’ve since learned that how I choose to think about a thing is exactly the experience that I will have with it.
The same is true for you as well. How are you thinking about the things that you desire to create?
Do you desire to launch your business but somewhere in the depths of your mind you find yourself believing that it’s hard?
You rationalize that you don’t really have enough time to put into doing the work to make it happen.
Do you desire to attract your first clients into your business but continue to entertain the thought that no one will work with you because you lack experience?
Maybe you are doing great in your business and you want to eventually leave corporate and work in your business full time but you find yourself paralyzed by fear that you won’t be able to replace your income.
You are so powerful and you were born a creator. It’s for this exact reason that whatever you think about and put your focus on you create into your physical experience.
It’s effortless really to come up with all the ways why something won’t work. Our minds are designed to keep us safe and as such it’s always looking for the threat.
Your mind does not rationalize that the new thing you desire to do will actually create great success for you.
It only sees it as something new and uncertain which leads to it doing everything it can to stop you from achieving the very thing you desire.
But again I remind you that you are a powerful human being. You have the ability to create whatever your focus your energy on.
You are not your mind. You are not your thoughts. You are not your emotions.
These are all parts of you but in your truest form you have the ability to focus all these parts of you onto the path that your soul desires.
The resistance you find yourself in can be moved through.
Your resistance to the process of creating more money, more clients and more freedom is actually resistance to the outcomes that all of the above will create for you.
To have more clients means to also be in place where you must provide high service and value. You are resisting the natural essence of who you are created to be.
To have more money means to also become more responsible with how you manage your money. Again you are resisting your natural essence of being abundant.
When will enough be enough?
When are you going to finally look yourself in the eye and face the beliefs that are not supporting you?
When are you going to get bold enough to create a new story for your business and then actually begin living it out?
When are you going to stop looking at what everyone else is doing and get yourself into action doing what you most desire?
The more time you spend in resistance to the thing you want to more you continue to create resistance to the thing you want which leads to you getting nothing.
You have the power right now in this moment to decide that you are going to no longer to be a slave to your conditioned patterns that are leaving you unfulfilled.
You have the power right now in this moment to decide that your dreams get to be bigger than the BS stories that are keeping you stagnant.
It’s time to stand up for the life you want. It’s time to step into the power that has been given to you by divine right.
You have an inheritance that is yours and it’s time to use it.
No more playing the victim card and blaming the world around you for what you don’t have in your life experience.
Don’t you see that you are the one that gets to choose this life?
Don’t you see that you are the solution to the very challenge that you find yourself in?
Don’t you see that the stirring within you to break free from your comfortable mold isn’t going anywhere?
I decided several years ago that I was tired of feeling this nagging, stirring, unsettled feeling within me. I wanted to allow it to be free.
I wanted to be free from the constant feeling of knowing I was meant for more yet not doing anything about it.
You know what I am talking about.
You beat yourself up because deep down you know that you are meant for more and that you are meant to show up in a more powerful way than you are now.
You get down on yourself and start to wallow in your own self-pity.
No judgement here because I’ve been there and I know how real it feels when you are in that place.
It’s time for you to do the work of getting over yourself and stepping into a new story that aligns with your greatness.
It’s time to look past the fear and uncertainty and take a step of faith into the unknown.
What’s the worst thing that can happen? You aren’t going to die by taking the action that scares you a bit.
You will only grow from it and evolve into better and better versions of yourself.
Listen there is no other way. The only way to get from where you to where you want to be is to go through until you get to the other side.
There are no shortcuts and spending your energy on trying to find said shortcut is not the best use of your energy.
The time spent looking for the shortcut could have instead put you on the path to creating what you desire.
I love you,
The Mindset Queen
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