One thing that I have begun to embrace is that as I am on this entrepreneurial and personal development journey I don’t have to go at alone.
I think sometimes we can feel like we have to have all the answers and be able to figure things out right now.
We want to know ahead of time what is going to come our way and then exactly how we should maneuver through it.
I decided a while ago that no matter what I did on this journey it would always lead me down my perfect divine path.
This mindset takes the pressure off from feeling like you have to know all the answers.
I used to wait for clarity and believe that it was just going to show up.
I would hear all these coaches talking about how important it was to have clarity because taking action from that place was so powerful.
I wanted that so bad. I wanted to know that the action I was taking was the “right” action to take so that I could move forward faster.
Here’s what I learned with that way of thinking – clarity cannot be rushed!
Clarity will come to you in the moments when you least expect it.
It will come to you in the grocery store, in the shower, while driving or while watching your favorite TV show.
The reason it comes in moments like that is because you are in a mind space of non-resistance. You aren’t in the shower pounding your foot demanding clarity. You aren’t driving your car in a panic wondering when clarity is going to come to you.
See it’s in the state of non-resistance where the ideas, inspired actions and the solution to our most pressing challenges come to us in what seems like thin air.
I have decided to simply trust that I am being guided by God. I affirm to myself every single day that I am supported by God.
There isn’t anything that I can do that is wrong because if I am fully believing that I am supported by God then He has all the power to get me where I need to be.
I can relax into the energy of simply knowing that if I show up and do all that I know how to do God will handle the rest.
So what if you fully trusted that you were being guided?
What would you do different?
How would you show up different?
Can you see yourself showing up more confidently and pushing the self-doubt and fear aside?
Now when the self-doubt comes up I find myself saying – No that’s not true, I am supported by God. No need to doubt Kendra, you’ve got this.
This allows you to come from a place of power and authority instead of allowing the ways of the world to dictate how you show up.
This puts you in the driver seat of your life and business experience.
Yes, it requires you to let go of the idea that you can do it all. But let’s be real you trying to do it all is wearing you out.
You will stress yourself out, worry, fret, and question yourself, doubt yourself and feel like you need permission for the ideas that come to mind.
I am asking you to sit all of that down and make the choice to believe that you are supported and that you are being guided.
I don’t believe that things just happen coincidentally. No I believe that all things in our human experience happen for a specific reason.
When you begin to get curious about these happenings you can get to a place of allowance where you allow your journey to unfold before you.
This journey of business success and life success gets to be fun and informative if we can loosen our grip and understand that we don’t have to know it all or have all the answers.
I sometimes think about what it would be like if I knew all the steps ahead of time. If I knew exactly what was going to happen and when.
And I find that life would be pretty boring.
Can you choose today to believe that you are being guided? Can you trust that God is supporting you and has your back?
The Mindset Queen